This new approach, catering to those who are anti-science and anti-public health, leaves all of our children less safe. And it forces parents like me to make impossible decisions about whether to take risks with our children’s health in order to educate them and avail ourselves of the childcare we need to work.
But the decisions of some parents not to vaccinate their children don’t just put the health of their own families in greater danger. They also put everyone around them at risk — including my own vaccinated daughters, who can still get breakthrough cases from their classmates.
Children under age 5 are especially vulnerable in these situations. Masks aren’t recommended for kids under age 2 (they could suffocate), and all of the children in my daughter’s preschool take off their masks when they eat and nap. So, the best way to keep these kids safe is for them all to be vaccinated, reducing their risk of contracting Covid-19 and spreading it to others.
When a child brings Covid-19 to school, he or she can quickly infect a lot of classmates who could then bring the infection home to their families. After my husband and I were notified that a classmate of my 3-year-old had tested positive for Covid-19 earlier this year (before children under age 5 were eligible for vaccines), my daughter and at least three other students in her class also tested positive within 24 hours. My daughter, of course, then infected her younger sister, my husband and me. I’m still traumatized by the memory of holding my 1-year-old whose fevers were so high that it felt like she had just come out of a furnace, even though we gave her round-the-clock Tylenol and Motrin. As a professor, I was able to teach my classes online, but my husband, an emergency room physician, had to call out from work, leaving him unable to care for other Covid-19 patients.
I’m outraged that I might have to keep going through episodes like this, all because of the anti-social decisions of other parents. And I’m worried about the possibility of more severe outcomes if we keep contracting the virus. But the alternative — keeping my children out of school, denying them an education and me the childcare I need in order to work — is also unacceptable.